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There's this girl who won't stop messaging me on Skype but that's because I completely stopped talking to her because she just came out to me she has so many mental issues like depression and anxiety attacks and other things like that and she went into one of her spells and it was bodaciously one of the scariest things I've went through.
She was just saying all of these... Terrible things. To herself. I couldn't help, nothing I said was helping, and after she finally calmed down she said those happened a lot and she won't hide them from me anymore and I just stopped talking to her after a few more conversations.
I wan to help her, I really do, I don't want to do this to her, but I...
I don't know how to handle someone like that.
I know all I'm going to do is lose my patience and get mad at her and I'll feel terrible and I don't want her to go through with that.

Fuck I feel terrible but I know if she stops talking to me then she won't have another breakdown in front of me and I won't lose my patience with her.
Then she won't see angry me.

I don't like angry me.
She doesn't deserve that.
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Well, it doesn't seem like you guys are all that close, so don't feel too bad about ignoring her. I don't think out right ignoring her and stopping conversation won't help so much as make her freak out like she is now, and will continuously seek your help. Just tell her straight up that you don't know how to help her, that you'd like to, but that she can get tons of help by seeking a professional like a counselor. From what you said, it seemed like the most she wants is someone she can vent to and keep talking to, which is okay, but a bit much for you. Get her to try and see a psychiatrist or something.
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Thank you. I was just... Really sudden.
Like, she told me and then suddenly all of her troubles were on me and I just don't do good in an atmosphere that isn't always positive, like mine usually is.
I mean, I have my moments where I'm really sad, but so does every teenager, because puberty, but... It's a bit much.
Thank you so much though.
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It sounds like I didn't have it as bad, but I was a lot like the girl Luro's describing about this time last year. I think some people here might actually remember it?
I have a lot of friends I can talk to, but eventually I just had to stop whining and start thinking about other things. Leaving the girl alone isn't a bad thing to do, yo. Don't feel bad.


Edit: no wait better confession!
Ever since I got my haircut, I feel super pretty. I like to stare at mirrors now. Whoops~
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i don't think i'll ever drink very much if at all. Not because of some moral high ground or health reasons, no. I am fucking sick of having to deal with drunk people.
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I used to think that rape meant attack.
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AwkwardSkeleton wrote:I used to think that rape meant attack.
"Hey James, what are you doing?" "Oh, just raping some zombies."
Yeah, I think that says something about how we misuse that word, dont you think? Its like using "gay" as an insult
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Had an appointment today and got back home with some job offers, and instead of getting busy I'm getting lazy hhhrrr

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So my parents are coming down to the city to visit on Labor Day weekend, and they are planning on going to a museum and a baseball game. I told them I probably shouldn't join them because I might have work that weekend (it's also the weekend after the first week of school). I kinda feel bad for not spending time with them, I could easily take off work if I had it. But at the same time, I've been to the museum before and it's too hot for baseball, and since I won't be working at all next week I need to make sure I get all the work hours I can.

So I feel bad by not going, but I would probably also feel bad if i did go. Blah.
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So I know people are into fireworks and I get why but I've never really been too excited by them. Maybe when I was younger but nowadays no.

This is relevant because the carnival is in town tonight and they do fireworks for the opening. Rather just hang on the computer and go another night when there aren't like a hundred other people there.

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Secretly, I really like shoving my success in peoples faces.
Only subtly at first and if they dont notice I start to get bolder and make it more obvious. for example, my friend think hes gonna make cheddar renting servers for games. I gave him a sarcastic answer and told him that i feel sorry for him not having a steady income.
oops.

I'm also very boastful

this is really something I need to change
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I had the highest score on most every standardized test in my school, so I went around trying to goad people into asking about them.
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What is every exam period at school ever when you got a good score.
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On the flip-side when I got a good score I'd try to hide it so nobody would notice since it was usually way above the average. Especially when I took the ASVAB for the military and scored in the 90's when the other people in my group got 60's and 70's.

Although I did have a penchant for saying that the tests weren't really all that hard out loud.
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