All overthinking will accomplish is scaring you out of doing it. Tell her when you're feeling pretty confident you have something you want to talk about if you're worried about chickening out, or tell a close friend you're going to do it so they'll push you That way you eliminate the risk of talking yourself out of it.
Tatzel wrote:It really feels like that clementine embodies your life Loth.
So there's this one girl I skype with who's on the other side of the country, and last year she told me she loved me. We had an online relationship for about a day before we both went, "Y'know what? Online relationships are stupid. I can't even hug you."
So we remained friendly with each other, still loved one another despite not being in an online relationship.
Then after Christmas she meets this one guy her friends introduced her to, and they start going out. I'm okay with this, as he can certainly do a lot more boyfriend things for her than I can.
But then she starts asking me for advice on what she should do in their relationship, and I'm left sort of conflicted because part of me wants her to be pop flyin', while another part of me is like "Heheheh, let's screw her boyfriend over with bad advice!" because I love her and am jealous of that guy.
And last month she told me that while she loves her boyfriend, she still loves me as well.
Should I tell her that I love her still?
She is in a relationship with another guy, and that relationship is better than an online relationship. She's also younger than me, and I just turned 18, so I'd have to wait a while before I could make any advances. Plus, she lives all the way on the other side of the country.
But even still, every time she messages me it brightens my day.
Should I try to become her boyfriend and overcome all these barriers, or should I try be content with being her friend despite that guy getting to have her as a lover?
Hey man, in my experience, no one is too unattractive to be in a relationship. Attractiveness isn't measured only in how you look, after all. There's someone for everyone, I believe. Obviously I've never seen you before, but I doubt you're So Ungodly Hideous that no one would want to get to know you.
- If you don't have cheddar, consider applying for a job;
- Spend more time doing things away from the computer. Maybe try working out;
- Try being more friendly to people in general. To everyone, regardless of who they are and especially their gender.
Being a booty doesn't make you more attractive. Being an interesting person does.
