The Dating Stories/Progress thread

[Kamak]

I thought CN was just implying that he was single?

I was thinking this too.

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Thanks, [IF], but it all may be sort of irrelevant now.

After spending the night with me, she went on a date and spent the very next night with someone else.

I think there is a word for that but it's very rude.

[The Willow Witch]

Trying diffrent things to see what fits right?

Theres no reason to blame her for doing what she has done, but there could have been better comunications dealing with how casual the date was supost to be.

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By "spending the night" I mean it in the least innocent way possible.

[The Willow Witch]

COMMUNICATIONS

[SaintCrazy]

I can see how that might hurt your feelings, CN. I guess she thought of things as much more casual than you did.

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COMMUNICATIONS

WHO HAS SEX WITH TWO DIFFERENT GUYS IN THE SAME 24-HOUR PERIOD

[Lotharu]

People who want to.
My roommate had three women in one day the other week. She finds them so fast.

[D-vid]

As long as the partners are informed of the casual nature of that everything is fine.
Problems arise if they are led to believe it is anything more.

[Shad]

It's not her fault if he assumed something. As Sheila keeps saying, COMMUNICATION

[Reyo]

I'm gonna have to take CN's side again for this one. 2 people in a 24 hour period does seem a little...too casual (even though I do agree with the whole "communication" bit. Very seldom is there such a thing as "too much" communication).

And it's not even a gender thing, it's extremely dangerous when it comes to issues like STIs and unwanted pregnancies.

People are free to have sex with whoever they want how soon they want, but there's such a thing as caution...or from CN's point of view, discretion.

[D-vid]

It's not her fault if he assumed something. As Sheila keeps saying, COMMUNICATION

So if you have a date with someone you should ask "Hey are you going to fuck another guy tomorrow or what?"

[Shad]

Are you purposefully taking the most foolish way to put it, D-Vid? Yes, I think that after sex with a person you weren't in a relationship with before, it's better to ask what's up with the two of you. I don't know what was what with CN and his ladyfriend, since he kept the details scarce (which is not to say he should say more), but I don't think assuming that you are in a relationship after a session of bed-shaking is wise.

And it's not even a gender thing, it's extremely dangerous when it comes to issues like STIs and unwanted pregnancies.

People are free to have sex with whoever they want how soon they want, but there's such a thing as caution...or from CN's point of view, discretion.

I think proper use of a condom helps with these problems. I also don't think a lady that has a lot of sex is necessarily incautious about it - I really don't see how the two are related.

[D-vid]

You'd assume that if the other person does not want to do anything more, they'd say it in advance or at the very least the next day. And I don't think he thought they were in a relationship, just not that she immediately would go to the next guy. From what CN said it sounded like she just up and went to the next guy without as much as a word.

[Shad]

You'd assume

Yeah, about that…

I understand being miffed by her doing so but I don't think it's much of an issue at all.