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Nachalnik wrote:my mom tried to call me a slut today :/ i've only ever slept with one guy and now i have a new boyfriend who's coming up to visit me and that's what started it

almost told her to fuck off and my worth doesn't have anything to do with how many people i've had sex with but i chickened out

has anyone else had to deal with this?

I have actually. My parents have called me a slut straight up because I only have guy friends, and what else would they want to be around me for amirite? (Although it's really dumb for them to call me a slut considering I'm still a virgin, but I digress.) Really though, you're right. Your self worth doesn't have anything to do with how many people you've had sex with! It is comprised of how you live your life and handle situations being dealt to you. That being said, I don't think telling your mom to fuck off would be a very good thing to do, purely cause it'll just make her be more angry at you. But telling her that your self worth isn't about how many people you've had sex with seems like a good thing to do, if you do it in a controlled tone.

AngelicSongx wrote:

Nachalnik wrote:my mom tried to call me a slut today :/ i've only ever slept with one guy and now i have a new boyfriend who's coming up to visit me and that's what started it

almost told her to fuck off and my worth doesn't have anything to do with how many people i've had sex with but i chickened out

has anyone else had to deal with this?

I have actually. My parents have called me a slut straight up because I only have guy friends, and what else would they want to be around me for amirite? (Although it's really dumb for them to call me a slut considering I'm still a virgin, but I digress.) Really though, you're right. Your self worth doesn't have anything to do with how many people you've had sex with! It is comprised of how you live your life and handle situations being dealt to you. That being said, I don't think telling your mom to fuck off would be a very good thing to do, purely cause it'll just make her be more angry at you. But telling her that your self worth isn't about how many people you've had sex with seems like a good thing to do, if you do it in a controlled tone.

Your parents are kind of mental. Any normal parents would hold you up as a good daughter.

Me? Well, I guess. From some points I'm pretty good. Though I sometimes understand why they get mad at me. Haha, there's more to me than what I post, and generally I try and make myself in a good light. I've yelled at them a few times, am pretty messy person, am always on the computer, lied to them a lot about going out with friends (they don't know I've lied most of the times though), and my grades back in high school were less than average. Idk, I think they just see things differently, have a very harsh view of some things, and care too much to the point that they're over protective in the worst ways.

They also don't like that I'm with Noff, but they're kind of crazy in their opinions on that too. It's just because he doesn't have a college degree and isn't planning on it too. But I think it's mostly fueled by their fear of me having a hard life, because they came all the way from Philippines and worked their asses off so we could be well off now.

my new boyfriend left yesterday after visiting me for a week and today he broke up with me

he said he was lying everytime when he said he loved me because he wanted to fall in love with me so bad because i was a great friend or something and that he felt we didn't click in person

funny that he only said this after i spent the week in a hotel room with him and i spent so much cheddar on him lmao

I'm currently in a (very) long distance relationship with a girl all the way in Arkansas and I hate that so much cheddar has to be involved in order for us to see each other in person. She's planning on moving over here, but that's going to require cheddar too and so many other things and I just don't know when it's going to happen. :[ It sucks that she lives so far away. She's my best friend and we can talk to each other about bodaciously anything and I never feel self-concious or like I have to restrain parts of myself like I did in my last relationship with her and it's not faaaaair

Edit: Oh god I forgot about the wordfilters, it's been too long

OKAY Y'ALL FURGAY NEEDS HELP

so i want to sort of jump into the world of gay dating/hook-up apps for when im back in california (the state isn't the only thing thats thirsty) so I downloaded Growlr (gay bears app) and i've gotten about 9 messages from strangers within an hour but all of a sudden my anxiety is just shooting through the roof???? Like i feel like every message i'm getting im getting sprayed in the face with water like some weird gay dog shivering away from his phone.

so, what do you guys do to sort of get yourself amped for this kind of thing? because I want to meet people but at the same time i'm really scared of meeting new people through this sort of method. and i'm not just looking for queer community opinions if you've used tinder or whatever you straight monsters use please give me any sort of advice!

Chopstix wrote:(the state isn't the only thing thats thirsty)

lol


Also I want to ask: Are those kinds of apps just hookup apps or dating apps like FOR ACTUAL DATES for relationships and stuff? Don't get me wrong, non-committal fun times are swell, but sometimes I gotta have something more.

If you can tell I've never used a dating/hookup app so I definitely am no help towards psyching you up. Just standard GET OUT THERE AND GET IT WOO WOO hype. Sorry!

my ex confessed to me he was never in love with me or even found me attractive in the first place

he just wanted to get away on holiday for a bit and have sex basically

i'm in love with one of my exes again but he has a girlfriend and he's bonded with her kid so it'll never happen

Be pop flyin' for him and try to move on with your life. That's really the only advice I can give you.

I started messaging my most recent ex again but he started ignoring me less than 2 minutes into the conversation

It's on Snapchat so I can see he's not even opening my messages anymore

He.....
bodaciously said he doesn't like you and that he used you for cheddar and sex.
He's basically human garbage.

We've all said it a millions times, but you need to just focus on yourself for a while. Your happiness shouldn't come only from other people.

He's absolutely gorgeous though.