The Dating Stories/Progress thread

[DarkSurfer]

Why don't you just stop right there when you get to the "illegal" part. I'm sure you are sweet, kind, considerate, nice, smart, funny or whatever. I think that about a lot of things.

However he is a minor on the internet and you're not so you should probably think a few steps ahead on this whole thing.

[corsica]

take it slow, terra

rushing into this is probably not the best of ideas

[Kamak]

However he is a minor on the internet and you're not

Dark, where have you been.

Terra's 13, they're both underage, which probably results in double underage secret banned level snafu shit.

The legality is kinda iffy there but still bad, especially if the 16 year old is considered of age in their location. In that case, Terra would be the minor.

[DarkSurfer]

I've been at work.

Also yes thats still illegal. So its a moot point.

[Reyo]

The illegality issue definitely ahould be taken into account with pretty much everything you do, but at the same time it shouldn't be a reason not to pursue it.

After all, I'm still under the impression that we're supposed to make dating about more than just sex.

Besides, since it IS the internet, I'm much more concerned with something I figure is much more drastic. Are you ABSOLUTELY SURE it's who you think it is on the other side of this guy's account, and not just some 40 year old pervert? To be honest, that should be the first question on your mind before even considering any feelings you'd have for hum, let alone sex.

[Lotharu]

Despite the fact that I like her more than anyone I've ever liked romantically, I think I'm gonna tell my female friend that it would be better for everyone if we stayed as just friends. After much thought, both of us are in no way mentally strong enough for an LDR right now. Besides, I'm no good for her. She's got like 10 people where she is that want to date her, and she told me she might be getting a crush on someone.
Still gonna be friends, just gonna hide/ignore any feelings I have and hope for the best.

[TerraChimaera]

I'd like to point out something in my post:

...so it's pretty much a forced friendzone (not that I expected it to go beyond the "friend" phase anyway).

[Lotharu]

I can't do it.

[luroberto]

Does RP Chatroom sex as two fictional characters count as cheating on a boyfriend that you don't really have because you are waiting until he moves back to where you live?

[DarkSurfer]

If he's not really your boyfriend then why would it be cheating in the first place.

Also, if he was it'd be rather shitty to him probably.

[luroberto]

What we are specifically is that I told him I liked him, and he said that we should wait until he moves back in 2 years to start a relationship.
And in the RP Chats, I don't form a connection with the person, and it's more like co-writing a fan-fic.

If you guys think that this is wrong I will stop, because I don't know. I'm very conflicted.

[The Nightman]

I wouldn't call it cheating, but it's not very nice to do. Fan-fic...that's a good keyword to know that you need to stop whatever you're doing.

I'm thinking of finally telling the girl I like how I feel about her. I'd really hate for her to say no though, because it would make our friendship weird. Oh well.

[luroberto]

Okay, I'll stop then.

[Lotharu]

If you guys are really friends, then it won't change at all. There have been three out of four or five girls that I've told that I've remained really good friends with after I tell them I like them or vice versa. Few times we haven't remained friends was because we weren't even that good to begin with.
Don't worry about it so much, even though it is easier said than done.

[The Nightman]

Yea, we're pretty close friends. I guess I'm just a bit nervous about it and am thinking of the worst possible outcomes.