The Dating Stories/Progress thread

[Shad]

I agree that people have different standards about sex but it irks me to see Reyo implying that having sex casually/ often would mean the person is incautious about it. I don't see why one would mean the other.

[Terraem]

Better yet, I'd think someone who made a habit of having sex with different people regularly would be more likely to take precautions.

[Reyo]

I agree that people have different standards about sex but it irks me to see Reyo implying that having sex casually/ often would mean the person is incautious about it. I don't see why one would mean the other.

The same goes for me and why you can't see the issue with it. I'm also not trying to push some agenda I have where "people must wait at least 25 hours to have sex" I'm just pointing out why I have my agreement with CN's point.

[Shad]

No, I understand why people would not like it/ would be miffed by it. I personally don't think it's an issue, but I get that some would not like it, and I have no problem with this either. My problem was what I stated in my previous post, nothing more.

[Reyo]

It could just be how I was taught when it comes to sex. I'm not talking "sex is bad never have it!" but more "sex is something that's sacred and should be respected and only with people you love!"

The whole "2 guys in 24 hours" thing kinda goes against that.

[Tammerath]

There is something to be said for dignity and clarity on the girl's part. Obviously Reyo felt like what they did meant something, but the girl didn't. As has been said, maybe it should have been discussed at the time what each party felt about what was going on.

I've also been raised that if you're willing to go that far with someone, then it should be worth something.

[Reyo]

It's also CN's love life in question, not necessarily my own. I just agreed with his point.

[The Willow Witch]

If under the circumstances everything is consensual, safe sex, and communications are in order, then no one has the right to tell anyone else to do with their body.

[creakyAccordion]

He didn't even give a reason why she was a bad person? I mean, that doesn't sound like he did a good job of convincing you, so it might not be that big a deal.

It'd at least be worth it to get to know her.

Well he did

and all the things she did were honestly p. shitty but I'd like to get to know her outside those situations

[Dr. Glocktor]

If under the circumstances everything is consensual, safe sex, and communications are in order, then no one has the right to tell anyone else to do with their body.

Nobody is saying that.

People are certainly allowed to disagree with what they do, however.

[SaintCrazy]

He didn't even give a reason why she was a bad person? I mean, that doesn't sound like he did a good job of convincing you, so it might not be that big a deal.

It'd at least be worth it to get to know her.

Well he did

and all the things she did were honestly p. shitty but I'd like to get to know her outside those situations

Yeah man, everyone makes mistakes. It's better to understand a person for who they are than what they've done. Best of luck to ya.

[AngelicSongx]

So guys I just got back from my accidental date, and then I told him I had a boyfriend just now. I am a terrible person. I hope I can still be friends with him. I've bodaciously broken like 2 hearts in one weekend. One today, and one at my Junior Prom.

At the dance a friend of mine that I nerd out with about internet things and anime stalked me throughout the dance and gave huge vibes of "I wanna ask her to dance". Luckily I had my bro with me (guy friend) to make it seem like I had a date. Though, both friends know about Noff, and yet the one who wanted to ask me out is kinda obvious during school about liking me.

Another friend of mine makes this like a shoujo manga. He's my childhood friend (I'll call him L), liked me since 3rd grade (I was in 4th though), but we haven't talked recently except for when we'd play Leagues or talk on Facebook. L asked me to see Warm Bodies with him, and because I wanted to see the movie and thought of him just as a friend I immediately said yes. Plus, I assumed he invited our other friends from the neighborhood too. He didn't. But to get my parents to allow me to go he did. God. I am dense as a brick. Just, agh. I couldn't let it go on more because he was already planning for us to hang out later, like next weekend, or even later.

So, with my brother and Noff spectating all this, backseat commenting, and pretty much laughing about the whole thing I said that Tuxedo Mask had sent me the video before that L wanted me to watch. My big brother's right. It could've just been avoided if I told him straight up that I had a boyfriend. I feel terrible. He has liked me since third grade.

Why can't I just be attractive to Noff? /stupid conceited pretty girl problems

Edit: L also gave me this super cute Valentine drawing of Lulu from LoL and I feel so bad and it's made with love and aaauuughhh

[Reyo]

Have you considered wearing a ring where a wedding ring would go?

[AngelicSongx]

I had a ring, but a friend broke it.. Although I do wear the 8-bit bow he gave me for Christmas last, last year all the time. But I guess it doesn't have the same effect since I don't say it's from Tuxedo Mask. Even saying the words "Tuxedo Mask" about things he's done or given me make me embarrassed.

[corsica]

since I don't say it's from Tuxedo Mask.